I was in the waiting room of my maxillo-facial doctor to treat a TMJ problem, when a brochure praising the effect of BOTOX cosmetic treatment for people between 18 and 65 years has caught my attention. The motto used was ‘’BOTOX – The Freedom of Expression’’.
I felt uncomfortable and sad to see how this recent finding has been turned into a lucrative business exploiting personal uneasiness ,and above to see that there are so many people paying thousands dollars per year to receive this treatment.
I think this is symptomatic to the society we are living in where you have to perform well, to have the right look, without any sign of weakness…
To me frowns and wrinkles are richness like our memory. They are the expression of our life, who we are, the bad and good things we have had in our life. They are the final stage of expression of things we have perhaps not expressed with words, like resentment, anger, love….
I agree that this treatment is a great help for people who have had a cancer for example and for which the therapy has let strong marks difficult to accept. In that case, it can be a real help and should be proposed.
But how explain BOTOX treatment for young people of 18 years old?
What are they looking for? Do they need to look perfect to be loved?
I really think that we should start again from the beginning and learn to express our emotions, be more peaceful with others and ourselves and accept us as we are.
Appearance is just an envelope. What counts is inside.